But you can.

[sorry bae, old habits die hard. it takes daeshim a moment to really think about his words, and understand why he might feel that way.]

What I mean is...you should be honest. You should tell others what you want, and what you hope for. I'm sure they...I would want to know.

[he tries to gently lift his chin and look him in the eyes again.]

And then you must trust what they tell you.